Applied Human Psychology & Behavious

Human psychology is mainly based on the image of anything or any person which prevails on the consciousness or sub-consciousness

When we born and there after what we learn is mainly based on what we mainly see all around. At that very moment a child cannot understand about mother or father or anything else. We are taught to figure out mother or any person/anything else. And as we are hammered a figure as mother and her love and care helps us to memorise mother. Then a child starts learning what his/ her mother says. And when that child grows up then he/she comprehend that what was taught is Wright. A child believe his/her mother because that child understand that his/her mother helps to feed food, which is the basic need to that child at that moment and that child find his/ her mother a very good friend, because all the basic needs are fulfilled by his/her mother. As the time progress, when a child develop confidence on his/ her mother or father to have all the assistance to his/ her need, then he/she starts to prefer what he/ she likes.

Mostly it was found that when a child dislike education/study rather playing, then if his/her parent force that child to read or to do what he/ she dislike, then an image of rival develop in the mind of that child.
But, when the child grows up and understand why he/she was forced to learn/ educate, then the temporary image reversed, here the child get attached emotionally to his/her parents.
When a child get matured, if he/she find any kind of behaviour which was not justified for his/her goodness at his/her childhood, and those behaviour was delivered consciously by his/her parents, then there may have immense probability to weaken the emotional attachment, which results carelessness too at the time when parents require any kind of assistance form that child in later stages. For example, in the rich families, mostly we find that a child is governed by the outsider due to scarcity of scopes to look after the child by his/her parent, then in the future, if that child found the reasons justified then only, parents may be considered.
otherwise dampen relations or attachment.
That child may be diverted or exploited by the opportunist or biased social system which we all usually found as a generation gap. Besides , after marriage, we find a distance, in between a child and his/ her parents, then we may consider that the gap between the expectation of love and affection of that child and what child was delivered, by his/her parents. May be that due part in love and affection is compensated by his/ her wife /husband, even in it also may be compensated by anyone who may be attached emotionally more than his/her parents.
When, there is the deep emotional attachment there, may have the conflict more as well. Because when two persons get attached emotionally then they might have detailed psychological explanation about their like and also dislike to both of them, so both of them are aware about their weak areas. So any of them can misguide well the opponent, better than, any other person who is not emotionally attached.

How rigid psychology affects & control human life:

Human being usually remains rigid around the age of forty, but the process towards rigidity starts before the age of forty. As we see that this is a century of globalization, so, as much as flexible you are, as much flexibility you may have for as much as long, you may have a growth towards your progress. Because, the century of globalization only allow to those people who are more productive and adding values every second. In early days we may had a scope to depend on the values added in our youth. But as we are progressing, we are confronting the innovative positive approach to progress. So if we keep static towards the life, and rigid also, then there we shall enter into the less productive areas, where we may find anybody waiting to remove you, for a better effort with a better outcome.

Usually rigidity motivate obsessions (in Negative sense) in human psychology, and produce a static look towards the performance, where we lag. And for the long time lagging behind produce failure or makes us poor productive persons, which may be challenged and we may lose a lot and drag us to delicate situations, results anxieties towards life which again produce rigidity, followed by a static outlook and performances. So it is a circle where any one of the above may create a real difficult situation for anybody.